Saturday, August 16, 2014

Around St. Louis, a Circle of Rage



Around St. Louis, a Circle of Rage

A version of this article appears in print on August 17, 2014, on page A1 of the New York edition with the headline: Around St. Louis, A Circle of Rage 


Human Rights will be voilated, till the world exists, people are  the same every where...they have an attitude of their own...to make them aware of their intentionl or unintentionl humialating & discriminating attitude, frist we will have to accept them, then slowly & gradulatlly reform their attitute.  It has become mandatory for the world eduction system to include Human Rights as a component subject in the school  curriculiun from an early stage all over the world for our upcoming future genration.








FERGUSON, Mo. — Garland Moore, a hospital worker, lived in this St. Louis suburb for much of his 33 years, a period in which a largely white community has become a largely black one.
He attended its schools and is raising his family in this place of suburban homes and apartment buildings on the outskirts of a struggling Midwest city. And over time, he has felt his life to be circumscribed by Ferguson’s demographics.
Mr. Moore, who is black, talks of how he has felt the wrath of the police here and in surrounding suburbs for years — roughed up during a minor traffic stop and prevented from entering a park when he was wearing St. Louis Cardinals red.
And last week, as he stood at a vigil for an unarmed 18-year-old shot dead by the police — a shooting that provoked renewed street violence and looting early Saturday — Mr. Moore heard anger welling and listened to a shout of: “We’re tired of the racist police department.”
The origins of the area’s complex social and racial history date to the 19th century when the city of St. Louis and St. Louis County went their separate ways, leading to the formation of dozens of smaller communities outside St. Louis. Missouri itself has always been a state with roots in both the Midwest and the South, and racial issues intensified in the 20th century as St. Louis became a stopping point for the northern migration of Southern blacks seeking factory jobs in Detroit and Chicago.
As African-Americans moved into the city and whites moved out, real estate agents and city leaders, in a pattern familiar elsewhere in the country, conspired to keep blacks out of the suburbs through the use of zoning ordinances and restrictive covenants. But by the 1970s, some of those barriers had started to fall, and whites moved even farther away from the city. These days, Ferguson is like many of the suburbs around St. Louis, inner-ring towns that accommodated white flight decades ago but that are now largely black. And yet they retain a white power structure.
Although about two in three Ferguson residents are black, its mayor and five of its six City Council members are white. Only three of the town’s 53 police officers are black.
Turnout for local elections in Ferguson has been poor. The mayor, James W. Knowles III, noted his disappointment with the turnout — about 12 percent — in the most recent mayoral election during a City Council meeting in April. Patricia Bynes, a black woman who is the Democratic committeewoman for the Ferguson area, said the lack of black involvement in local government was partly the result of the black population’s being more transient in small municipalities and less attached to them.
There is also some frustration among blacks who say town government is not attuned to their concerns.
Aliyah Woods, 45, once petitioned Ferguson officials for a sign that would warn drivers that a deaf family lived on that block. But the sign never came. “You get tired,” she said. “You keep asking, you keep asking. Nothing gets done.”
Mr. Moore, who recently moved to neighboring Florissant, said he had attended a couple of Ferguson Council meetings to complain that the police should be patrolling the residential streets to try to prevent break-ins rather than lying in wait to catch people for traffic violations.
This year, community members voiced anger after the all-white, seven-member school board for the Ferguson-Florissant district pushed aside its black superintendent for unrevealed reasons. That spurred several blacks to run for three board positions up for election, but only one won a seat.
The St. Louis County Police Department fired a white lieutenant last year for ordering officers to target blacks in shopping areas. That resulted in the department’s enlisting researchers at the University of California, Los Angeles, to study whether the department was engaging in racial profiling.
And in recent years, two school districts in North County lost their accreditation. One, Normandy, where Mr. Brown graduated this year, serves parts of Ferguson. When parents in the mostly black district sought to allow their children to transfer to schools in mostly white districts, they said, they felt a backlash with racial undertones. Frustration with underfunded and underperforming schools has long been a problem, and when Gov. Jay Nixon held a news conference on Friday to discuss safety and security in Ferguson, he was confronted with angry residents demanding to know what he would do to fix their schools.
Ferguson’s economic shortcomings reflect the struggles of much of the region. Its median household income of about $37,000 is less than the statewide number, and its poverty level of 22 percent outpaces the state’s by seven percentage points.
In Ferguson, residents say most racial tensions have to do with an overzealous police force.
 “It is the people in a position of authority in our community that have to come forward,” said Jerome Jenkins, 47, who, with his wife, Cathy, owns Cathy’s Kitchen, a downtown Ferguson restaurant.
“What you are witnessing is our little small government has to conform to the change that we are trying to do,” Mr. Jenkins added. “Sometimes things happen for a purpose; maybe we can get it right.”
Ferguson’s police chief, Thomas Jackson, has been working with the Justice Department’s community relations team on improving interaction with residents. At a news conference here last week, he acknowledged some of the problems.
“I’ve been trying to increase the diversity of the department ever since I got here,” Chief Jackson said, adding that “race relations is a top priority right now.” As for working the with Justice Department, he said, “I told them, ‘Tell me what to do, and I’ll do it.’ ”
Although experience and statistics suggest that Ferguson’s police force disproportionately targets blacks, it is not as imbalanced as in some neighboring departments in St. Louis County. While blacks are 37 percent more likely to be pulled over compared with their proportion of the population in Ferguson, that is less than the statewide average of 59 percent, according to Richard Rosenfeld, a professor of criminology at the University of Missouri-St. Louis.
In fact, Mr. Rosenfeld said, Ferguson did not fit the profile of a community that would be a spark for civil unrest. The town has “pockets of disadvantage” and middle and upper-middle income families. He said Ferguson had benefited in the last five to 10 years from economic growth in the northern part of the county, such as the expansion of Express Scripts, the Fortune 500 health care giant.
“Ferguson does not stand out as the type of community where you would expect tensions with the police to boil over into violence and looting,” Mr. Rosenfeld said.
But the memory of the region’s racial history lingers.
In 1949, a mob of whites showed up to attack blacks who lined up to get into the pool at Fairground Park in north St. Louis after it had been desegregated.
In the 1970s, a court battle over public school inequality led to a settlement that created a desegregation busing program that exists to this day.
A Ferguson city councilman caused a stir in 1970 when he used racially charged language to criticize teenagers from the neighboring town of Kinloch for throwing rocks and bottles at homes in Ferguson. The councilman, Carl Kersting, said, “We should call a black a black, and not be afraid to face up to these people,” according to an article in the St. Louis Globe-Democrat.
Eventually blacks broke down the barriers in the inner ring of suburbs, and whites fled farther out. But whites fought hard to protect their turf.

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In the mid-1970s, Alyce Herndon, a black woman, moved with her family to what was then the mostly white town of Jennings in St. Louis County. She said some of their white neighbors stuck an Afro pick in their front lawn and set it on fire. Ms. Herndon also recalled tensions flaring between black and white students at her school after the television mini-series “Roots” first aired in 1977.
For all its segregation and discrimination, St. Louis did not have the major riots and unrest during the 1960s that was seen across the country.
St. Louis’s black leaders “were able to pressure businesses and schools to open their doors to black people and employers to hire black workers,” Stefan Bradley, the director of African-American studies at St. Louis University, wrote in an email. “These concessions may have been enough to prevent St. Louis from taking what many believed to be the next step toward redress of injustice: violent rebellion.”
But the fatal shooting of Mr. Brown has brought submerged tensions to the surface.
“St. Louis never has had its true race moment, where they had to confront this,” said Ms. Bynes, the Democratic committeewoman. Without that moment, she added, blacks have been complacent when it comes to local politics. “I’m hoping that this is what it takes to get the pendulum to swing the other way.”
Ms. Herndon, 49, said she moved her family to Ferguson in 2003 because she felt it was a good community, safer than the unincorporated portion of the county where they lived previously and with better schools for her children.
The town, she said, offers everything — places to shop, eat and drink. There is a farmers market on Saturdays. She frequents a wine bar across from a lot where a band plays on Fridays. She has white and Asian neighbors on either side of her, and there are other black families on her block. She has not experienced the racial tensions of her childhood in St. Louis County, she said, but she understands that the younger generation is living a different experience than she is.
“I understand the anger because it’s psychological trauma when you see so many people being shot or people being falsely accused,” said Ms. Herndon, who over the past week has avoided the streets that have been filled with tear gas and rubber bullets in clashes between police and protesters.
But now, a population of young black men who often feel forgotten actually feel that people are finally listening.
“If it wasn’t for the looting,” said one man, who declined to give his name, “we wouldn’t get the attention.”

Mr. Moore went one step further. He does not condone the violence that erupted during some of the protests, he said, but he does understand the frustration. And if he were younger, he said, he probably would have joined them.
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Friday, August 15, 2014

A tolerant solution for America & Israel's genocide & bloodshed on Muslim Ummah & Muslim States

A tolerant solution for Israel's genocide & bloodshed on Muslim Ummah & Muslim States





We the Muslim Ummah in our outrage have been calling all sort of offensive names we can imagine to Israel & America for its genocide & bloodshed in Gaza & Muslim States, but how did we Muslims Ummah reacted to this?, except taking out rallies, protesting, rioting, pelting stones & damaging our own properties & monuments, unintentionally denting our own national exchequer, which we need very much for our own development. The print & electronic media have played their role to reach out to the world with their news & are also full of this topic.  Students, youngsters, Face Book & Internet users are shrieking of the genocide & bloodshed in Gaza on the social media, but what have we practically done to stop this genocide & bloodshed in Gaza & Muslim States?, ...We should go deep down our conscious & let us first ask our self, have we stopped using (e.g.) America products made, exported, or sold through franchised outlets or agents like Fast-Foods, junk foods, chocolates, ice-creams, apparel wear, footwear, cosmetics, internet, soft-wares, computers, I pods,  I-phones, cell-phones, higher-education?. These are just daily use items, which come across your eyes, but this list will go on longer & longer, & to top it off, all our Muslim States don’t lag behind, they are laden with American war-fare equipments, & latest arm & ammunition products made, exported, or sold through franchised outlets or American agents. The American charges the Muslim States more to what the product is sold in the open market.  There is not a single State or household in the world where you will not find a product connected somehow to America present in it.

Why against American products?
No, we are not against American products, but are against the American policy of becoming the policeman of the world through its economical strength of which 85% is controlled by Jews businessmen families & learned inventors from Germany migrated or escaped before, during or after the World War II & settled in America. Firstly they funded the Jewish settlement in the Middle East to create a Jewish State ‘Israel’ in the middle of the 19th century. The huge global sales profits earned by the Jewish majority stake-holders of the strong American economic is channelized or bestowed in the foam of immense wealth, banned, restricted & lasted War-fare equipments & WMD to Israel disguised as Self-Defense resources, due to centuries old provoked thought that, "Jews are at war with Muslims & the Muslim charter calls for the annihilation of Jews. Nothing, then, can be considered disproportionate when Jews are fighting for their very right to live." They say ‘’ why not Muslim then Jews”. As being the strong hold of economic of the super power, they are in that category to make the world unions, councils or organizations, look the other way when they, with a logic that more than 3/4 of Israel’s border is surrounded by enemy Muslim States & we consider our support as self defense for Israel & get away with it, as their public relation lobbying with world watch observers are very strong. It is presumed globally that Wealthy Jews are the king maker of the American Congress & can make the American Congress dance on their tunes anytime they want.
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My dear Muslim brothers & sisters, this is the twentieth century, in this era, battle are not won by wars on water, in air, or on the borders, but economically. Our Muslim Ummah with a population of more than 2.8 billion under its umbrella, with Oil & Gas for another 150 years & trillion of tons of natural resources, but it is very disappointing to see that we have moved apart from the teaching of Islam and indulge our intelligence and strength in petty internal issues like sectarians indifferences, political instability, intolerance & trying to impose our perception or our school of thoughts on other Muslims.
Now is the time that we, the Muslim States with a population of more than 2.8 billion spread out over  the world  to standup united & empower our-self economically step-by-step vice & strategically  boycott all products, raw materials,  franchises, or patterned designs product connected, somehow to any economy of any state which is controlled or owned  by the majority of Jews. We have many economically strong states with easy approach & cost effectiveness in Asia, with whom we can empower our self through economically joint-ventures, along with developing roads, rail tracks, gas & oil pipe-lines for easy & cost effective transportation & communication. Within a span of next 10 t 15 years it will be evidently prove the decision that of Muslim Ummah as one of the super power of the world. ‘There will be No Al-Qaida nor Internal Security, No Taliban nor CIA,  No Terrorists nor America as the global policeman No Aid or Economical Sanctions nor embargoes, No imposed attacks nor genocide & bloodshed, but only one motto of the world, ‘Live and Let Live Everybody Without Interference in Peace & Harmony’
My Appeal to the Muslim Ummah, Do not be outrageous & call all sort of offensive names we can imagine to anybody for their genocide & bloodshed on our Muslim brothers & sisters or the Muslim State, Islam teaches us to be tolerant & peaceful till the ultimate movement. But, express your annoyance in a calm & peaceful protest. Now is the time to Stand up & take action against the genocide & bloodshed faced by our Muslim Ummah. Stop using initial day to day products produced by the economical strong industries controlled by wealthy American Jews from no onwards & than move to larger products.  If this trend is implemented by 30% of the Muslim Ummah & Muslim States you will observe that within the next 10 years the strong American economy controlled by the wealthy families of Jews will collapse on its knees with recession. That will be a victory for the Muslim Ummah, peaceful with no bloodshed, genocide or deadly wars.
I can!   - Can You?

You have 2 choices:
Read this article, nod in affirmation, & go on to read another article.
Or
Share this article with as many Muslim brothers & sisters as you can, & start implanting boycott strategy from now onwards.


A PACK OF AMERICAN BUISCUITS, A CHOCLATE, AN AMERICAN SOFT DRINK OR A PACK OF AMERICAN CHIPS DAILY BYCOTED BY 20 TO 30% OF THE MUSLIM UMMAH COULD DENT A MAJOR LOSS TO  THE SUPER POWERFUL AMERICAN ECONOMY OWNED OR CONTROLLED BY THE WEALTHY FAMILIES OF AMERICAN JEWS.”  
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Monday, February 3, 2014

Obstacles in our Prayers




Obstacles in our Prayers



Obstacles in our Prayers

God will always try to wake one up during a person's 
life, this call comes in different forms. 
Sometimes in dreams, sometimes when you hear a good sermon, 
sometimes a crisis, sometimes a tragedy. 
All these ways are to pull you back so that you can prepare yourself for 
your return to God. 
Some people are able to catch these messages but others fail to see it. 
The obstacles that stop us from concentrating in meditation are as follows: 

1. Attachment to material things. 
The more things we have the more we need to take care of it. Our time and 
energy is wasted in maintaining these things. 
The possessions take us over. We become slaves to our possessions. 
So the trick is to draw a line between our needs and our desires. 
We can make our lives very simple by only having what we absolutely need. 

2. Attachment to our relationships. 
Learn to keep a little detached from your relationships. 
The children that are born through you are not your possessions. 
You give them love and guidance but they are Gods souls. 
If you were to lose anybody in your life - you should be prepared to accept it. 
Enjoy and be peaceful with your relationships but when it ends - let it go. 

3. Attachment to your body. 
We spend so much time and energy to make ourselves look different than 
how we are. We should be comfortable with ourselves. 
If we are possessed with how we look - that becomes a hindrance (difficulty). 

4. Attachment to Wealth. 
Accumulation of wealth for the purpose of hoarding it is not part of 
any religion. Use what you need and share what is excess. 
When we are busy just making money so that we can accumulate, 
we have no time for anything else. There is no satisfaction and that ties us down. 

5. Attachment to the past. 
When people have hurt us in the past, we can't seem to shake it off. 
We carry the anger with us in the present. 
That anger takes us over. When we forgive we do ourselves a justice, 
we free ourselves. 
Therefore, don't waste time and energy into things that have happened in 
the past. In fact, when someone hurts you - feel it for few minutes and 
then let go. Do you keep garbage in your house or you take it out? Similarly, 
remove all anger and throw it out. 

Finally, 
"When you run after the world, the world never comes into your hands".
The day you learn to detach (separate) yourself from this world and 
concentrate on your spiritual enlightenment that's when the world will come after you. 
But you will have no need for that world because you have found 
peace and tranquility (calm).

Saturday, January 25, 2014

Disgracing the Glory





An article from my friend – Fida Karim on Facebook brought up many questions in my mind like....What is the standard of University Education in Rural Sindh????......or….Is this how most of the students score "A+" and "A" grades in Rural Sindh????


Article
Lately I came across a DOUBLE MASTER degree holder in rural Sindh. He stated that he wants to work in social sector therefore, needed my assistance to find a suitable job in development sector. This is how we interacted:

Me: please tell me about yourself and your educational background?
Candidate: Sir I have masters degree in Economics and Sociology one got from Shah Abdul Latif Uni Khairpur and later on from Sindh Uni Jamshoro. I have "A" in both the subjects.
Me: Great! i am excited to know about your academic credentials. May I know what were major subjects in Masters in Economics as I myself is an Economics graduate having special interest in development economics?
Candidate: Sir have completed my degrees quite some time ago that's why not remember the names of subjects......
Me: Its alright! What were your subjects at your Graduation level? 
Candidate: Sir it was graduation level subjects 
Me: Great! you might have completed Intermediate as well ? 
Candidate: Yes Sir
Me: We needed people like you. May i know what subjects did you learn in your inter?
Candidate: Sir Economics
Me: What did you learn in Economics?
Candidate: regarding economics 
Me: Regarding economics? I didn't understand. . . may you please elaborate what were you learning in Economics?
Candidate: Sir why are you asking what I have learn . . . actually we complete an year than automatically promoted to next class. What we were doing was simply copying from books and moving ahead.
Me: Great! I know this is how it happens; what else you can do? Tell me about your experience?
Candidate: I have experience of carrying tents and other items on head to safer places during 2010-11 floods.
Me: anything else? What about English and computer skills?
Candidates: I can write English (copying) but can't use computer.
Me: You are an "exceptional" candidate so we didn't have any "exceptional" position except a vacant position of Dish Washer, but for that you are "overqualified" nevertheless, I will strongly recommend you whenever there arise any "exceptional positional" in my professional or social circle. 
Good Luck & Cheers 

Salah is the best Treatment


Friday, January 24, 2014

President of Uruguay - All Pakistani Politicians should be like this Man


President of Uruguay




Thats Not A Poor Farmer Checking On His Crops. You ll Never Guess Who It Actually Is…



Meet José Mujica. He may look like your average farmer or grandfather, but he is anything but. This man is globally known as the worlds poorest President because he lives a life of humility… all while leading the country of Uruguay. As a man who truly cares about his people, he doesnt take an obscene amount of money to just act as a politician. He donates about 90% of his $12,000 monthly salary to charities that benefit poor people and small entrepreneurs.

Other countries, listen up.

Its not uncommon to see Jose dressed like this. He doesnt care about money and appearances, but just leading his country.





He was a guerrilla fighter that battled for the rights of the country's citizens, was imprisoned twice and was shot 6 times after an escape attempt. He has literally spent his entire life fighting for his country.





This is Uruguay's Presidential Palace. He doesn't live here.



Instead, he lives here, on a farm with his wife.



He actually is a part-time farmer. He and his wife also grow and sell flowers. He also drives a 1987 Volkswagon Beetle.



He only has two guards positioned on his road. Along with his beloved 3-legged dog Manuela, of course.

Instead of acting like he is better than everybody else, the president of a country wholeheartedly believes that he IS like everybody else.

In a time when it seems that rich politicians rule the world, learning about Jose is truly refreshing.

Be firm on your Goals


Mout Ki Aagosh mei sub Beh Jayega





Rise above every Circumstances






All mankind is divided into three classes; those that are immovable,
those that are movable and those that move.

Benjamin Franklin
The immovable (in my opinion) are those that are content with where they are in life. They have no need or desire to do anything different or go anywhere further. They are happy where they are at, and as far as I am concerned, I am happy for them.
The movable (in my opinion) are those that are not necessarily unhappy where they are at, they just see where someone else is and decide they want that. They are the ones that want to climb the corporate ladder and are always out to better themselves.  There is nothing wrong with being movable in this case
The ones that move (in my opinion) are the ones that take chances, follow their dreams, push the boundaries, think outside the box and charge into the unknown with both eyes open. They are the ones who listen to the negative but don’t take it to heart. Hear the positive but don’t drown in it and stay humble throughout life.
Yes, I could have taken that analogy another way, a lower way, but why would I do that? What would that look like?
I’m sure if you thought about it, you could come up with what I started to write next but I decided against it, and I suggest you take the same road.
The immovable doesn't need to be the stagnant, arrogant type.
The movable doesn't need to be the low self-esteem and bullied type.
Rise above that. See the beauty in every situation (or at least try to) and when you start to see that dirty stuff trickling its way in, hit the delete button and take pride in the smile you have and hopefully, you are helping to spread.
Have a blessed day!

Best Regards,
Soudak

Tuesday, December 18, 2012

Learing Development for a Change




Human being is a wonderful creation with exceptional qualities. He is always differentiated from other creatures because of his intellect and communication skills. Man has certain responsibilities towards the society he lives in. The basic quality he should have is the commitment towards his fellow beings. A humanitarian consideration shown to others makes him outstanding from other living beings.


The preference or consideration extended to a less fortunate fellow being is the basic step of humanism. Today man has become more and more self centered in all perception. He is concerned only about the satisfaction of his needs. Even the value of a family is shocking, only a luxurious life pattern is demanded by everyone and as a result the human emotions are not valued. Only a materialistic approach is being appreciated in today’s society.



The world is moving with latest modern technologies which are likely for modern man. At the same time the rate of people in under developed countries who can’t afford a onetime meal is increasing more than these technological developments. A quarter portion of the money spent on advance & latest ammunition & entertainment budget by Pakistanis can easily eradicate poverty from the face of our motherland. True humanism should be shown by providing the basic essentials, food, shelter and clothing to the needy.  Another important aspect of humanism includes good educational facilities. Only by imparting proper education a person with good culture can be molded. One who has a good culture has the commitment to the society he lives. He definitely knows the responsibility towards his fellow beings & government and their necessities.



Humanism is not a simple word to be preached or included in the school curriculum; it’s a word to be put into practical action. The objective and the motive of this word is wide and deep aims only at the benefit and goodness of human race. The importance of humanism is acquiring more and more attention today.

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Monday, December 17, 2012

Creating a Change for a Developed Pakistan



There are numerous strategies’ of creating mutual changes in your life, like respect between diverse groups, respecting & tolerating  the identity of different ethnic, religious, or cultural groups as equal citizens of Pakistan.

Relationships are not easy. They mirror everything we feel about ourselves and the way the society works. When you’ve had a bad day, the people around you seem difficult. When you’re not happy with yourself & if you’ve ever gotten in a fight, only to find yourself wondering what you were really upset about. Your hyper tension may also boost your frustrations too. Feel walked on and unheard? You guessed it; your inclination to change will help you change that.
We don’t live in a vacuum. We have thoughts and feelings that can be confusing. You may have made uncountable mistakes in relationships. You may have expected too much, or not asked for what you needed in fear of spoiling the relations. You may have been competitive. You may have been suspicious. You may have  been dependent. You may have liked to think what made you survive so positively with all these mistakes and with a strong goal for a change. This is only possible if you have been honest to yourself & take a stand to resists ill moral & ethics.

Being self aware, in my opinion, is far more valuable than being perfect–mostly because the former is attainable and helpful, while the latter is neither.
We don’t live in a vacuum. We have thoughts and feelings that can be confusing. Inclination to change will help you change that. When I apply these ideas, I do better sometimes than others, I feel confident, strong, compassionate, and peaceful in my interactions. I hope they can do the same for you.
So let us go for creating a change  for a Developed  Pakistan..
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Can Your Actions Affect Others?







Can Your Actions Affect Others?


Mark was walking home from school one day when he noticed the boy ahead of him had tripped and dropped all of the books he was carrying, along with two sweaters, a baseball bat, a glove and a small tape recorder.


Mark knelt down and helped the boy pick up the scattered articles. Since they were going the same way, he helped to carry part of the burden.


As they walked, Mark discovered the boy's name was Bill, that he loved video games, baseball and history, and that he was having lots of trouble with his other subjects, and that he had just broken up with his girlfriend.


They arrived at Bill's home first and Mark was invited in for a Coke and to watch some television. The afternoon passed pleasantly with a few laughs and some shared small talk, then Mark went home.


They continued to see each other around school, had lunch together once or twice, and then both graduated from junior high school. They ended up in the same high school where they had brief contacts over the years.


Finally the long-awaited senior year came and three weeks before graduation, Bill asked Mark if they could talk.


Bill reminded him of the day years ago when they had first met. "Did you ever wonder why I was carrying so many things home that day?" asked Bill.


"You see, I cleaned out my locker because I didn't want to leave a mess for anyone else. I had stored away some of my mother's sleeping pills and I was going home to commit suicide. But after we spent some time together talking and laughing, I realized that if I had killed myself, I would have missed that time and so many others that might follow. So you see, Mark, when you picked up those books that day, you did a lot more, you saved my life."

Tuesday, October 30, 2012

Can Your Actions Affect Others?






Can Your Actions Affect Others?


Mark was walking home from school one day when he noticed the boy ahead of him had tripped and dropped all of the books he was carrying, along with two sweaters, a baseball bat, a glove and a small tape recorder.



Mark knelt down and helped the boy pick up the scattered articles. Since they were going the same way, he helped to carry part of the burden.



As they walked, Mark discovered the boy's name was Bill, that he loved video games, baseball and history, and that he was having lots of trouble with his other subjects, and that he had just broken up with his girlfriend.



They arrived at Bill's home first and Mark was invited in for a Coke and to watch some television. The afternoon passed pleasantly with a few laughs and some shared small talk, then Mark went home.



They continued to see each other around school, had lunch together once or twice, and then both graduated from junior high school. They ended up in the same high school where they had brief contacts over the years.



Finally the long-awaited senior year came and three weeks before graduation, Bill asked Mark if they could talk.



Bill reminded him of the day years ago when they had first met. "Did you ever wonder why I was carrying so many things home that day?" asked Bill.



"You see, I cleaned out my locker because I didn't want to leave a mess for anyone else. I had stored away some of my mother's sleeping pills and I was going home to commit suicide. But after we spent some time together talking and laughing, I realized that if I had killed myself, I would have missed that time and so many others that might follow. So you see, Mark, when you picked up those books that day, you did a lot more, you saved my life."




Friday, October 26, 2012

Practice of Compassion



Practice of Compassion
By
Noorudin.S.Bhamani

Once upon a time a deer lived in a lush deep forest. It was  very beautiful with golden fur that sparkled like multi-colored gems, eyes as blue as sapphires, and even horns and hooves shone with the cluster of precious stone.
One day the dear heard the cries of a man being carried away in the river with a strong flow. The deer responded by entering the strong flow and allowed the exhausted man to climb on his back. He carried the man to the safety of the bank and warmed him with his fur.

The man was beside the deer until he was totally recovered, and with gratitude and wonder at the marvelous deer. He took leave to go home. One night he saw the deer in his dream, "No one has ever done anything for me such as you have done," he said. "My life is yours. What can I do to repay you?” To this the deer replied, "All I ask is a promise that you will not tell other humans about me. If men knew of my existence, they would come to hunt me."
At that time, in that elite section of the city, there was a wealthy lady who saw extraordinary things in her dreams that eventually became real. One night she dreamed of a brilliant golden deer that sparkled like jewels & lived in the deepest of the jungle.

The wealthy lady awoke and called her personal manager to tell him of this amazing dream, and she asked him to go and find the deer and bring it to her. The personal manager trusted his employers visions, agreed to find the deer. He ran an advertisement on TV to all of the hunters to look for the shining, golden deer spotted with many colors. Whoever could bring the deer to the wealthy lady would receive a huge bungalow and 5 million cash in prize money.

The man a wood cutter by profession, who had been rescued by the deer, saw the advertisement, and was greatly troubled. He was still grateful to the deer, but he was also very poor, and he imagined himself struggling with poverty for the rest of his life, cutting wood. Now a life of prosperity was in his grasp! All he had to do was break his promise to the deer. He was pushed with desire and pulled by gratitude. Eventually he told himself that as a wealthy man he could do the world a lot of good to make up for breaking his promise. He went to the personal manager of the wealthy lady and offered to take him to the deer.

The personal manager was delighted, and he gathered a large group of expert hunters and set out to find the deer. The rescued man guided the followers over rivers and through forests, and they eventually came to where the unsuspecting deer was grazing."Here he is, Sir," the man said. The personal manager had seen the deer, which sparkled in the sun like a heap of jewels and was overcome with desire to obtain this beautiful deer for his wealthy employer, and he fitted an arrow to his bow.

Before pulling the string of his bow, the personal manager asked" fortunate one! Please explain how you found him here? The man, now filled with guilt, looked down at the ground and told the whole story. The personal manager grew angry, and turned the direction of his arrow towards the wood cutter. "Why should this lowest of men live any longer?" he roared. It is better to take a log out of a flood than to save an ungrateful person from it. Take him in our custody, we will deal with him later, let the deer go and let us all return to the camp".

That night the deer came in the dream of the personal manager, "Stop, Sir," he said. "Do not strike the one who is already stricken, His only fault is his poverty and selfishness in deeds, I rescued this man from danger, and now he brings danger to me. The personal manager promised to give the man the rich reward he had been promised by the wealthy lady.

"I believe all the worldly moral laws can be summed this way: Compassion to all human beings. The practice of compassion to all human beings should cause humans to regard all human beings as their own families. If a person regards all human beings as his own family, how can he even think of harming them? The whole of righteousness is contained in compassion. Keep this in mind and practice compassion to fellow human beings as if they were your sons and daughters, and your reign will be glorified."


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